Published by Apostle on 08 Nov 2006

Does the Bible indicate that David and Jonathan shared a homosexual relationship?

Many advocates for the homosexual lifestyle have suggested that the strong love between David and Jonathan indicated a homosexual relationship. They cite the following passage as proof of their claim:

“I grieve for you, Jonathan my brother; you were very dear to me. Your love for me was wonderful, more wonderful than that of women.” — 2 Samuel 1:26

There is no question that Jonathan and David’s love and loyalty ran deep (1 Samuel 18:1-3; 20:17), even though the friendship

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Published by Apostle on 07 Nov 2006

Why are there two radically different interpretations regarding what the Bible teaches about homosexuality?

The most likely reason is that many individuals on both sides of the issue have made up their minds long before they open the Bible. When they do turn to the Scriptures, preconceived opinions and intense emotions tend to color their interpretations.

Whatever side of the issue a person is on, it can be difficult to set aside strong views and feelings and come to the Bible with an objective, open mind. Consequently,

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Published by Apostle on 07 Nov 2006

Do people choose to have sexual attractions for the same gender?

Generally, most people don’t start out choosing to feel sexual attraction for persons of the same sex.1 This doesn’t necessarily mean that people are born with these desires. Instead, same-gender attractions usually develop out of a combination of factors in a person’s background, often without a person being aware of when and why the desires came about.

Many studies and personal accounts suggest that same-gender sexual attractions often emerge in a context where children feel unaccepted by their same-sex parent.

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Published by Apostle on 07 Nov 2006

What is the sin of homosexuality?

People on both sides of the issue often misunderstand the sin of homosexuality. In trying to argue that there are acceptable types of homosexual relationships, some try to define the sin of homosexuality by limiting it to specific forms of sexual behavior between those of the same gender such as pederasty (sex between men and boys). Defining unhealthy same-sex behavior in this manner, however, does not reflect the spirit or language of the Bible.

On the other side of the issue are those who fail to recognize the

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Published by Apostle on 07 Nov 2006

Should I be concerned about this cloud of hopelessness that seems to hang over me?

Hopelessness is a dreadful feeling. The Bible says, “Hope deferred makes the heart sick” (Proverbs 13:12). Many people go through times when they know something is terribly wrong, but they often can’t put their finger on it. All they can explain is a strong sense that nothing is going to work out.

It’s unwise to ignore chronic feelings of hopelessness. Our souls cannot live for long in a state of perceived hopelessness. Hope is the oxygen of the soul. Without a hopeful outlook, our souls will eventually suffocate.

Our

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Published by Apostle on 07 Nov 2006

Am I a weak person headed for an abusive marriage?

Jesus said that when a man and woman unite in marriage “they are no longer two but one” (Mark. 10:7-8). For two people to grow in their oneness, however, there must first be two individuals — each with a strong understanding of his or her own values, thoughts, and beliefs. Otherwise, the marriage is in danger of turning into a one-sided relationship where one spouse regularly controls his or her partner.

Let’s be clear

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Published by Apostle on 06 Nov 2006

How can I overcome the feeling that I’m damned and bound for hell?

To a person passing through the spiritual changes that the Bible describes as moving from death to life (John 5:24; Romans 6:13; Ephesians 5:14 ), awareness of the ugliness of one’s sin can be overwhelming. One of the reasons repentance is so difficult is the pain that comes from acknowledging sin.

Repentance involves spiritual battle. The names “Devil” and “Satan” mean accuser and adversary. When we move towards repentance and salvation, the enemy of our soul strives to transform our

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Published by Apostle on 06 Nov 2006

How can I go on living when I feel like I just want to die?

When the cares of life overwhelm us, it might seem easier to wish for death than to face the struggle. If you are hurting and trying to find a way out, please read on, for there is hope for you!

God knows your pain. He knows your doubts and fears. He knows that you have difficulties and that you even question Him.

A follower of Christ named Paul (who wrote much of the Bible’s New Testament) also struggled with circumstances to the point of losing hope. In 2 Corinthians 1 , he told the church of Corinth that he had

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Published by Apostle on 06 Nov 2006

Why is it so difficult for victims of sexual abuse to trust?

Trust is a universal struggle. All of us wrestle to some extent with trusting others because of painful experiences with betrayal. When the source of that betrayal is someone close to us, it can be especially devastating ( Psalm 55:12-14 ). Nowhere is this more true than when a child or teenager is sexually abused by a family member, close family friend, or some other trusted authority figure. Seduction and sexual exploitation by trusted individuals creates an environment for a lifetime

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Published by Apostle on 06 Nov 2006

How can I forgive someone who sexually abused me when all I feel is hatred and rage?

You took the difficult and vital step of confronting your abuser, but far from bringing some resolution, his reaction made it clear that he still is remorseless and unrepentant. It isn’t surprising that you are upset.

You needn’t feel guilty about your strong feelings. God designed us to have an intense emotional response to evil. Your natural revulsion to unrepented sin isn’t wrong in itself, nor should it be considered

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